About someone who is proud of his bad habits. I am most annoyed by people who always say: “I am this kind of person, what else can I do?”
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Proud of Bad Habits
When there was a bad character in him and he was asked to change, he immediately issued his ultimate move by saying: “I am this kind of person.”
He always labels himself like that, as if all the bad habits and bad traits that exist within him are predestined and cannot be changed.
As if there is no way to grow into a better human being, even though nothing is permanent in this world except change.
What partner would want to be with someone who has bad habits? At first maybe he will accept our shortcomings, but over time your partner will get bored with all your bad habits.
Which friend wants to be friends with someone who has bad habits, especially as we get older, the more we see the world.
We must have an environment of friends that strengthen each other, not drain each other’s energy because we are friends with people who have bad habits.
Everyone definitely has bad habits, but that’s not the point I want to discuss, what I want to discuss is people who don’t want to improve their bad habits!
Have you ever heard the saying? “I’m a person like this,” “I’m short-tempered, often out of control, so sorry if I’m often rude.”
After apologizing, the next day it happened again and didn’t want to change, the next day it was the same, still didn’t want to change.
He always labels himself that he is like that, and he is proud of his shortcomings and hopes that other people will understand all his shortcomings!
This type of person is ready to be abandoned by the best people, how can we be happy if we don’t want to change? How can we be successful if we never want to develop?
Indeed, no human being is perfect! But great people with extraordinary lives are people who always grow to be better people than before.
Don’t be proud of this bad habit, because you should be ashamed and ready to commit to improving this bad habit.
It is true that bad habits or bad traits are also influenced by environmental factors.
If there are people around us who have a hobby of cursing people, a hobby of insulting people, when we do the same thing, we don’t realize that we are also doing this bad habit.
When we make friends with lazy people, whose job is only to enjoy time wasted on useless things.
So when we do the same thing, we will never feel that lazing around is a bad habit!
Even though some of our friends have good habits, many of our friends are also bullied.
There are people who are aware that they have bad habits and are trying to improve their bad habits and perhaps until now they have not been able to.
However, there are also people who never realize that they have bad habits. Because earlier, because of environmental factors.
Like because his environment was lazy, when he also became lazy, he never realized that he had the bad habit of being a lazy person.
How can we change it? Take control and build awareness that we really want to change even though intention alone is not enough. You have to:
First, write down all the bad habits that we want to change, write them on a piece of paper and stick them on the wall of our room. So you will always be aware that there are things that need to be changed in us.
Second, make an action plan to replace bad habits with good habits.
Third, ask other people for help to always remind us to change these bad habits!
It’s not easy, but it’s not impossible, right? Because success is not instant, everything must start from ourselves and begin by building positive habits.
So that later these habits will produce positive character, and positive character is what determines our fate to be positive too.
It’s not easy, so don’t be surprised, the number of successful people is less than the average person.
Now the question is, in this life, do you want to live a successful life or just like this? It’s not easy, but we have to be willing to do it!
May we always grow to be better people than yesterday, because there is a loss if yesterday is the same as today!
My motivational writing is not only for you, but this writing is also to always remind me to always develop good habits and always eradicate all my bad habits!
We shouldn’t dream big if we don’t want to change our bad habits, we shouldn’t dream of changing the world if we don’t want to change ourselves!
Everything starts from ourselves, change, because the axis of the world does not always rotate according to our wishes.
