Don’t worry! We have limited energy, our energy fuel can be focused on two things: first, doing something, or second, worrying about it.

Both require energy, but number two is often used unconsciously, so maximize what you can control and accept whatever happens.

There are things that depend on us and there are things that do not depend on us and if we are not aware, that there are things that are beyond our control, we will treat everything the same.

Even though our energy is limited, we need to limit it to only exerting energy that we can control, namely trying.

Results?, we don’t decide, don’t waste time, energy, thoughts, worrying too much about the results.

What’s more, a person only needs to control his thoughts so that he can be more relaxed about things that are beyond his control.

It’s best to maximize what we can control and accept whatever happens, because if we want to feel happy and peaceful, it’s important for us to try to accept the things we can’t control.

This means that there are things we have to take care of, and there are things we don’t need to worry about.

Don’t worry about 5 things in life

And in this article I will discuss 5 things that we don’t need to worry about because they won’t be of any use.

1. Society’s perception of us

Without realizing it, sometimes you care too much about what other people think about you. You are afraid of being disliked and considered bad by them.

But no matter how good you are, there will always be people who oppose you, there will always be people who don’t like us, maybe because of different views, different goals or just ‘heart disease’, namely jealousy or envy.

Always remember that you can never please everyone. So there are times when you need to be ‘foolish’ about what they think.

Their assessment of you is theirs and not your business, so try to always be happy with what you want, not what other people want.

Make creativity according to your wishes without having to want to get “likes” from many people, use it however you like, don’t care what people think, do what you like, not what other people like.

But of course, adjust everything to religious norms, customs and the social environment where you are.

2. Their attitude towards us

Other people’s attitudes or actions towards you are also something we cannot control.

Maybe you think that if you are nice to everyone, then everyone else will be nice to you too.

Maybe you will meet one or two people who will repay your kindness with kindness, but you still cannot control their actions.

You can’t control it according to your wishes, so do as much good as possible, don’t expect people to reciprocate, but doing good is our business with the universe.

We cannot control other people to be loyal and good to us, because they can pretend, they can even betray us.

We can’t control that, so don’t bother, if you want to do good, do good, let the universe judge and weigh our goodness. But rest assured that goodness will always return with good things.

3. Your appearance such as height, body type and skin color

Our appearance, such as height, body type, skin color, is also impossible for us to control.

We can only maximize our beauty by choosing the right fashion style, the right make-up, taking care of our body such as diligently exercising, sleeping well, or using the right skin care.

Sometimes, even though we use skincare, diligently clean our face, use night cream and so on, genetic and environmental factors make our face prone to acne.

When we try hard to control it, we become increasingly stressed and it can actually make the situation worse and trigger other diseases. So, we don’t need to control it, all we need to do is take care of our body.

4. The Future of Love

A love relationship exists between two people, and can even extend to two families.

No one knows what will happen next because you also can’t control your partner’s feelings.

It’s natural for us to make plans and do our best for your future with him. But sometimes things don’t go as smoothly as we imagine.

Differences will always exist, conflict in a relationship will always exist. Well, when we think to be happy and feel complete we have to be in a relationship with another person.

Then at that moment you will depend on that person and when that person does not match our expectations, then we are ready to fall into the abyss of destruction.

Imagine what happens when he leaves us, when you depend on him too much, you will be very disappointed and perhaps, at the worst level, you will experience trauma.

So don’t expect us to be able to control it. All we can do is give, love, and don’t expect otherwise, so that when something happens in our relationship, we are sincere and let go quickly.

5. Don’t worry about the past

We cannot change and control things that have already happened. If there were mistakes in the past, you should try to make peace and forgive yourself.

If you want to be happy, don’t let the past bother you, you can look back but never bring it back.

Try to focus on planning for the future because bitter experiences in the past can be used as lessons to build a better future.

Make your past the best memories that will lead you to a victorious future.

Those are 5 things you don’t need to worry about. So, try to identify what you can control and what you can’t.

It’s useless if you worry about things you can’t control, because it will only disturb your mood and burden your mind.