About simple ways to be happy. We sometimes like to disturb our own thoughts, we elevate other people’s lives to the point of lowering our own lives.

We sometimes see other people only from their happy side and we compare it with our unhappy lives, we always think that what we do is pointless.

We are never satisfied with what we have, seeing other people’s partners on social media, we adore them and belittle our own partners.

And in our hearts we say, “if only my partner was like him”. Even though it is possible that this person’s partner is not better than your partner in real life.

We complain about work and view other people’s work as extraordinary, even though maybe our work is a dream for people out there who don’t have jobs.

A simple way to be happy

Life is beautiful, life is a gift, why can’t it be beautiful and not happy? Because we never appreciate what the universe gives us.

We don’t want to be ourselves, we don’t want to make up our own life story because we feel like our life is a disaster.

We always want to be someone else and want to live according to our wishes, if that’s what we want just believe it, until we die we will never be happy.

Living in this world, what kind of life do you dream of? Maybe you saw a famous celebrity on a TV show, you wanted to be like him.

Seeing a famous YouTuber with a million cars, you definitely want to be him.

Seeing a handsome couple marry a beautiful celebrity, you fantasize, “if my partner is also like that one day”, or watching a love movie, you hope your love story can be like theirs.

Just imagine if you could have it all, you were famous like a celebrity, had a luxury car collection, had a handsome or beautiful partner, and had a lasting relationship.

Try to imagine everything that is inside you, you don’t need to imagine it because it’s impossible to happen, having dreams is fine, but having all of that feels like it won’t be possible.

It’s really unfair, just wanting something delicious but not willing to take what you don’t like, so don’t waste your time imagining what will never happen to you.

Don’t waste the rest of your life constantly comparing yourself to other people’s success, come back to the real world, you won’t all be like them.

Everyone can be happy

Everyone is born different, humans were not created in this world by copying and pasting, because humans are always born with a plan from start to finish, there is always a meaning to why you are in this world.

You are too busy spending your time looking for your identity even though what you have been looking for all this time is yourself. Yes, you!

Being yourself because you are yourself is more honorable than being a “copy paste” of someone else.

So be yourself because the universe makes all individuals perfect, which makes your life imperfect because you just want to be someone else.

No need to mask, friends! Just imagine, always wearing a mask everywhere, it would be very uncomfortable.

You don’t have to be someone else to be respected, you don’t have to be someone else to be loved.

You will not gain true love and respect from others by living a wrong life. You can earn respect and love from others because you want to be yourself.

Okay! Be yourself, don’t look smart, because that’s the same as telling yourself that you’re stupid.

Don’t be embarrassed about looking simple, but be embarrassed when you pretend to be rich.

Hang out in expensive and cool places just to be seen on Instastory, buy luxury goods for people to admire even though the goods are fake, after all, you do it to get respect from other people.

NO! they won’t care because they are more concerned with themselves, which is actually your money is always enough to live on but your money will never be enough.

If you have to fulfill your entire lifestyle, because seeing other people it will definitely never be enough.

My friend, life is too precious, don’t spend the rest of your life looking great in front of other people, don’t spend the rest of your life just to get other people’s approval.

Life is actually cheap, brand labels make it expensive, life is actually simple, what makes it complicated is self-esteem.

My friend, be your true self, never bother with other people’s words because sometimes people only have mouths but no brains.

Make peace with yourself, you won’t be happy if you always compare yourself to others.

Humans are born with their own strengths and weaknesses, so comparing them actually makes you disrespect yourself.

By comparing it, you actually never appreciate what the universe gives us.

Find your potential, find your strengths, find your uniqueness and continue to develop what you have and be happy!

Because the true essence of being yourself is that we have to optimize our potential and talents without having to change our uniqueness and not having to follow other people.

Live your own story, be happy with your own stage, enjoy your strengths and improve your weaknesses.

You will be happy if you live with gratitude and accept what is and we must always be the best version of ourselves!