Acting in the middle of annoying people. Have you ever felt lazy about going to crowded places?

Because you are lazy about meeting people, and in your heart it crosses your mind that we will meet someone who annoys you.

Yes, without thinking, we can also be disturbed from leaving the house, where we will be confronted by disorderly drivers.

Going to the mall we will encounter selfish people queuing in the elevator or in the toilet or going to a family event, we will be faced with sharp mouths without feelings.

Humans are simply social creatures designed to live side by side with other humans.

What this means is that if this is annoying, it’s not just about people’s behavior towards us, but maybe our behavior can unintentionally also upset other people.

Here’s How to Act in the Middle of Annoying People

Annoying behavior can also be applied to our small actions, such as using a cell phone while watching a movie at the cinema, getting into the elevator without waiting for someone to come out first.

Or honking the red light even though it’s only a green light, closing the door when entering a shop even though there is someone behind us, or other people.

There is a reality that we cannot avoid, namely that humans will hurt and harm each other, whether they realize it or not.

There is no place in this world, we will not meet annoying people, expecting bad people not to hurt other people is crazy, because it is the same as asking for the impossible.

In other words, it is normal for bad people to hurt other people, and it is strange if we expect the opposite, or even more annoying if we expect exceptions.

Other people can hurt anyone as long as it’s not me, that’s strange, isn’t it?

From the description above, the point is that we will never be able to escape from annoying people wherever we are.

How can we overcome these disturbances? The answer is, never!

Because annoying people are beyond our control, we cannot control other people’s behavior, but we have complete control over whether we feel annoyed or not.

Other people’s behavior will have no effect on our happiness, that’s why it’s strange if we lose happiness, because other people’s behavior is annoying because it’s out of our control.

All power is in our hands, upset with other people’s behavior, it’s all up to us!

Like co-workers who have annoying habits, our own parents often don’t meet our expectations. So if we feel bothered by all that it’s because we let it be.

Sometimes other people can be very annoying not because of what that person does, but because of what that person doesn’t do.

For example, someone is ungrateful, or we smile at that person but our smile is not returned.

Are you upset or not? Yes, it will disturb you, if we allow distractions into our minds. This means, don’t be frustrated if our kindness and hospitality is reciprocated or not.

Once again, we cannot control other people’s responses, but doing good to others is completely under our control, because how stupid we would be if we expected our kindness to be immediately reciprocated.

Let’s instill this in ourselves: “I am happy to be kind and friendly towards others”, that’s all, nothing more!

On social media, for example, many people deliberately create anger just by using their fingers.

Maybe comments that trigger anger, deliberately provoke debate and so on and there are still many of us who are easily provoked.

Through the actions of provocateurs on social media, how do we deal with them?

When we get emotional seeing provocateurs on social media, stop! Don’t be in a hurry to move your fingers, think again first because the words on social media are just words that will not come true.

Likewise, if you insult a work of art, the value of the painting will never change.

If we are offended it means it is our fault, how do we take revenge on those annoying people?

Well, actually the best revenge is not to be like the perpetrator. In conclusion, wherever we are, we will face annoying situations. But we have control over maintaining our happiness and enthusiasm.

Don’t let this happen just because it annoys people, so that it ends up destroying our enthusiasm and happiness!