Why are you not happy? We meet again, but this time I tried to make something different. I want us to discuss it casually.

I want to present a different learning atmosphere, but still with the motivational elements that I always include in my writing. Yes, maybe those of you who are interested can read this article to the end.

You’re not happy, maybe you haven’t found happiness, maybe when you saw the title you were interested because you weren’t happy, finally you can read this article. Yes, maybe!

But maybe for those of you who are feeling happy today, it’s okay to read this article too, at least to get a reference from a different point of view.

Because the more we learn, the more we will continue to develop, surely in the future we will become even better.

So as the title suggests, the topic I will share today is Why aren’t you happy when people say happiness is simple?

Often we see on friends’ social media feeds, there is a photo of a cup of coffee with the simple title happiness.

There is also a photo of the soles of his feet in a photo with a beach background, with the caption happiness is simple.

There are also our friends who take photos of their partners smiling, or do something to the photo and give a simple happiness caption.

The only question is, Why are you not happy? Is happiness simple?

In my opinion, the measure of happiness for each person is different, each person is different, for example, happy with a cup of coffee, for those who like coffee, for those who don’t like coffee, can coffee make you happy? ?

Happy with your partner, for those who have a partner, if you don’t have a partner yet? However, is having a partner a measure of happiness? Yes or no.

Some even say: Laugh if you are single, because if you have a partner, it will be difficult for you to laugh?

There are those who are happy to have children, there are those who are happy to have a partner, but there are also those who like to live alone.

This means that everyone has their own definition of happiness, and we cannot force people to be happy as they are.

Happiness comes if we ourselves create happiness, like coffee is not a measure of happiness, where when we drink coffee, we sip, sip, then sip. But what about the mind?

For example, tomorrow the loan is due in full, well coffee cannot give you happiness, because coffee is just a drink.

There are also those who say that if you are rich there will definitely be happiness, if you have a lot of money you will be happy. And that’s why many people work hard to become rich.

Therefore, in the end he wants to be happy, but is that completely true? Yes or no. But working hard to become rich is not wrong.

Basically what I want to convey is that being rich and successful does not guarantee that we will be happy.

Rich, he can buy the food he wants but not all the food he can eat. Want to eat this one with cholesterol, want to eat that one, afraid of high blood pressure, this is also troublesome.

Why are you not happy now?

Sometimes it’s funny, but that’s the reality, in my opinion, the reality is that happiness cannot be obtained or placed in an object, position, place, person or anything.

Because happiness comes from the heart, if your heart is not happy, you want to live in a beautiful place, you are still not happy, you want to have your dream partner, if your heart is not happy, you are still not happy.

But if we have put happiness in our hearts, even though we are in prison we will be at peace, we will still be grateful, we will still be happy.

Or even though up to now we don’t have a partner, if our hearts are happy, we will still be happy.

It’s not easy, in my opinion happiness is not simple, because happiness must be fought for.

We must strive for happiness so that it is always present in any condition, every day, every time we wake up or before we sleep, we must present that happiness.

So keep going, no matter how heavy your burden is, if you always put happiness in your heart then everything will be fine, believe me.

Happiness comes when we call it, no matter our current condition, no matter our current circumstances. If our hearts are ready to receive happiness, then happiness will come.

But the condition is that we must have gratitude, that is an absolute requirement to bring happiness, because if you are grateful, willing to accept what happens, then happiness will automatically come.

Not success first then happiness but happiness first then success, not marriage first then happiness, but happiness first then we can share happiness with our partner.

Yes, enjoy the universe that God has given us now, and don’t let regrets in the past or worries in the future take away what we have now.

You have not fought successfully! But what’s so happy about not having a partner yet?

Try to find it, but with joy. Not like everyone else? Be happy so that other people envy being like you.

Because you are always happy in any situation, whatever makes you happy, fight for it and whatever makes you sad, then leave that sadness behind.

Because we are the ones who determine our own happiness and sadness, and no one determines whether happiness or sadness comes to us except ourselves.

Yes, we have to fight for happiness, but don’t take away other people’s happiness, we have to fight for that happiness, but don’t let us hurt other people.

Happiness is your right, you have the right to be happy, because the source of happiness is gratitude for what we have now.

You’re not happy? Try to always be grateful and happy, and after our hearts are happy, don’t forget that we must also try to make the people we love happy.

Because true happiness is that we can be happy and we can also fight for their happiness. another.

You’re not happy? Happiness is not simple but happiness is fought for, my message is, always put that happiness in your heart!

Hopefully our discussion can be useful and make you always successful wherever you are.